Skip to content
  • X

Subscribe

Magazine | Newsletters
  • Food & Drink
  • News
  • Culture
  • Style
  • Home
  • Family
  • Wellness
  • Things to Do
  • Travel
  • Best of NoVA
  • Best Restaurants
  • Top High Schools
  • Best Summer Camps Poll
  • In This Issue
  • Home
    • Culture
  • Local entrepreneurs launch new concert series Music with Friends DC
barry_feil
  • Culture

Local entrepreneurs launch new concert series Music with Friends DC

From live music in an intimate setting to pre-cocktail gatherings and after-parties, here’s what to expect from this private concert club arriving in the District.

By Jess Feldman August 16, 2019 at 3:25 pm

barry_feil
Alex Obuchowski (left) and Barry Feil (right) launched Music With Friends DC in July. (Photo courtesy of Music With Friends DC)

Picture this: It’s Saturday night and you’re ready for a night out. You pack up your things and drive to Sidney Harman Hall where free parking awaits, head up to the cocktail reception featuring high-end food and then proceed to a live concert—featuring icons like Tony Bennett and Diana Ross—before closing the night with an after-party at a designated restaurant in the area. 

And the best part is, you get to do this three times a year without ever pulling out your wallet throughout the evening. 

This is what a typical night would look like for a member of Music With Friends DC, the newly launched concert series that has been thriving in Charlotte and Houston for over a decade. The DC branch of the concept is spearheaded by two entrepreneurs from the Northern Virginia region, Alex Obuchowski and Barry Feil.

Prior to taking a leap and welcoming the concert series to the District, Feil served as CEO of nonprofit Celebrate Fairfax for nearly 15 years, where he ran major festivals, led community outreach programs and grew his love for the arts scene in this region. But Feil didn’t just dive into this idea, he had been thinking about it for a long time.

“I first heard about it 10 years ago while I was at Celebrate Fairfax,” says Feil. “I was working with my agent and he casually mentioned this program he was working with in North Carolina and I instantly fell in love with it. I thought, what a perfect way for people like me, who love live music but don’t want the hustle and crowds, to enjoy the art.”

Sidney_Harman_Hall
The inside of The Shakespeare Theatre Company’s Sidney Harman Hall. (Photo courtesy of Music With Friends DC)

For Feil, the series is about experiencing music in its truest form. Every concert will take place at the Shakespeare Theatre Company’s Sidney Harman Hall, which was specifically chosen for its architecture and size, fitting a capacity of 760 people. Yet for Music With Friends, each performance will cap at 600 seats in order to keep the events intimate and comfortable. 

“The key was finding the right venue that had all the boxes checked,” says Feil, referring to elements of size that weren’t too large or small, good acoustics and a little bit of history. “There had to be character to it. The stage is large with great sites for every seat, the roof is high, making for great sound, and it’s in a populated area. It’s the perfect venue.”

Feil expects members will span in personality, ranging from corporate teams to DC couples, but the underlying similarity will be a love for the arts. 

“The event is something people can look forward to for months, and in reality it doesn’t really matter who is performing because the experience is always going to be special,” says Feil.

But of course, the stars who will make their debut on the Sidney Harman Hall stage are recognizable names, as the members will have a say in who performs. Each year, the team will send a list of musicians, ranging in genre from classic rock to pop, for members to choose from. As for who Feil would like to see? The Doobie Brothers, The Pretenders and Elvis Costello come to mind. 

Obuchowski and Feil are currently wrapping up the branding phase of the project, and are starting to work with local businesses, corporations and law firms to promote the concept. Over the course of the next few months, they will be inviting individuals to come in for dinner or brunch events to continue spreading the word about Music With Friends. While all of this behind-the-scenes action is happening, applications for membership for the inaugural 2020 season are now open. Cost for membership start with an initiation fee that runs from $800 to $1,000, followed by a membership fee of $2,000. 

“I want to attract people like me who love music and who are just going to cherish what this is all about,” says Feil. “We know there’s an audience for this, it’s just a matter of bringing them on board.”

Want to stay up to date with all the latest ventures coming to Northern Virginia and Washington, DC? Subscribe to one of our e-newsletters.

Trending in NoVA

9-Year-Old Killed in Herndon E-Scooter Crash

Stupid Good BBQ Wins NoVA Wars: Barbecue Edition

Where to Find Japanese Arcades and Gachapon Machines in NoVA

Here’s Your 2026 Voting Guide for Virginia’s August 4 Primaries

The 2027 Best Summer Camps Survey Is Now Open

things to do newsletter

Our Top Stories In Your Inbox

Our newsletters delivered weekly.

Subscribe

Feeds

RSS Feed Follow in Feedly

You May Also Like

Rendering of new Virginian Barn at Wolf Trap

Wolf Trap Has Added a Third Historic Barn to Its Property

electric workers

POLL: Do You Support the Golden to Mars Transmission Line Project in Loudoun County?

Birds eye view of Historic Route 11 Drive-In Theatre

Northern Virginia’s Closest Drive-In Theater Reflects on 70 Years of Cinema

  • X

Company

  • About Us
  • Advertising
  • Writer’s Guidelines
  • Internships
  • Terms of Use

Magazine

  • Magazine
  • Subscription
  • Newsletter
  • Back Issues

Talk to Us

  • Contact Us
  • Submit an Event
  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Instagram

Shopping

  • Subscription
  • Back Issues
  • Plaques
  • Realtor Client Gift Subscriptions

On Newsstands Now

great happy hours, august 2026 cover

Copyright © 2026 Northern Virginia Magazine

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. Hey AI.